Are you thinking about getting married?
We gladly marry all people we legally can, including trans people with gender recogntiion certificates. If you'd like to celebrate your special day in our special church, please get in touch with the office to find out how to apply.
Blessings
We are in the business of blessing! As well as being able to offer weddings in church, we can also offer blessings for civil marriages or civil partnerships. These service can take place in church or in other locations.
Same sex couples. We love you! St Mary's is an inclusive church and we are delighted to offer blessings for same sex couples within one of our services. We hope one day that 'the rules' in the Church of England will be flexible enough to allow us to offer more for same sex couples, including marriage in church. If you'd like to find out more about having your civil marraige or partnership blessed, please get in touch.
Music for Weddings
From James, our wonderful Music Director: "One of the most rewarding roles I have is to provide the music for weddings at St Mary’s. I like couples to choose exactly what music they want, whether it is traditional, classical, popular, modern, film music or whatever. I enjoy playing traditional and modern music and can play the great classics on the organ as well as informal music on the piano. Nothing is too difficult or too unusual - it is their day, so wedding couples may select whatever music they want!
I encourage wedding couples to have the choir at their wedding: the main advantage of having the choir is that they provide a real boost to the hymn singing during the service. Many people are not used to singing and the hymns can fall rather flat with just a handful of people joining in, so the choir can be a great help in ensuring that the hymns go down well, encouraging others in the congregation to join in making the occasion most joyful.
There are around ten people in the choir who are usually available to sing at a wedding. Couples may request music for the choir to sing (popular, classical or traditional - they are versatile!) or they can sing suitable music from their extensive repertoire during the signing of the register.
My aim is to make the occasion as happy and joyful as possible and to help the guests relax as they enter the church by playing jolly and familiar music on the wonderful pipe organ."
James Baker, Organist and Director of Music
(music can be arranged with James via the office).